Weekly Pondering...

I was recently asked "how do I learn to trust myself?" I thought of dozens of ways to answer this question. I have to admit the question has caused me to do some pondering. I wanted to be witty and sharp, quickly responding with one quote-worthy answer. But my answer didn't flow like that. Trust is built slowly and destroyed quickly. You can't build it overnight, even with yourself. Like a building, the parts relate to each other, need each other, and don't stand alone.

I decided to post what came to mind in the order the thoughts came into my mind.

Do what you say, say what you mean.
Make sure your actions and words match each other.
Be honest with yourself and others. (No lying by omission either.)
Take life one step at a time - just do the next right thing.
Treat others as you would want to be treated (the golden rule.)
Make realistic commitments and keep the commitments you make.
Take responsibility for yourself and quit yer bitch'in!
Be willing to ask for help when you need it.
Let your past be your teacher, learn your lessons, and then graduate (move on - let go.)
Be willing to grow and change.

Today I ask myself - am I willing to take the precious time necessary to build trust with myself and others?